Frequently Asked Questions

While you have the legal right to represent yourself, it is often not advisable. Family law involves complex procedures, financial disclosures, and custody arrangements that can have lasting consequences. An experienced attorney can help you understand your rights, protect your interests, and work toward a fair settlement, especially when significant assets or children are involved.

Divorce is a major life transition that brings significant changes to your finances, living situation, and daily routines. It’s also an opportunity for a new beginning. While the adjustment period can be challenging, our goal is to help you establish a solid foundation for your future. We focus on creating practical, forward-looking solutions that allow you and your family to move on with your lives in a positive way.

Choosing the right attorney is a crucial decision. Look for someone whose philosophy aligns with your goals. Do you want to resolve issues amicably, or do you anticipate a court battle? Find a lawyer with significant experience in family law who communicates clearly and makes you feel heard. At Kvale Antonelli & Raj, we prioritize shaping the future rather than dwelling on the past, focusing on methods like collaborative divorce to achieve healthier outcomes.

For your first consultation, it’s helpful to bring a list of your questions and a brief overview of your situation. If possible, gather basic financial documents, such as recent tax returns, pay stubs, and statements for bank accounts and debts. Don’t worry if you don’t have everything; the purpose of this initial meeting is to understand your options and for us to learn how we can best support you.

If your spouse retains an aggressive lawyer, it is important not to react with fear or anger. The best response is to have a calm, strong, and strategic advocate on your side. Our attorneys are skilled litigators prepared for court when necessary, but we always lead with a focus on de-escalation and productive negotiation. We can protect your interests without adding unnecessary conflict to the process.

Hiring a collaborative attorney enables you to resolve your divorce privately and respectfully, outside of the court system. The benefits are numerous: it is often more cost-effective, less stressful, and gives you more control over the outcome. This process is designed to foster open communication and creative problem-solving, resulting in agreements that are tailored to your family’s unique needs and help preserve a functional co-parenting relationship.

You may be good candidates for collaborative divorce if you both wish to avoid court, maintain a respectful relationship, and prioritize the well-being of your children. Other positive signs include a willingness to be transparent with financial information and a shared commitment to finding mutually agreeable solutions.

To prepare for mediation, start by identifying your goals and priorities. What outcomes are most important to you regarding your children, property, and finances? Gather relevant financial documents and come prepared to listen and negotiate in good faith. Working with your attorney beforehand can help you develop a clear strategy and feel more confident during the session.

This is one of the most difficult and important conversations you will have. It’s best to talk to your children together with your spouse, if possible. Reassure them that they are loved and that the divorce is not their fault. Keep the details simple, age-appropriate, and avoid blaming the other parent. The goal is to provide stability and reassurance during a time of great change. There are many resources, including family counselors, that can help guide you through this process.

If you have more questions about divorce, our team at Kvale Antonelli & Raj is ready to help you move forward with confidence. Reach out today.